Life Lessons

Cheer up. You were in the ET today.

Very true words…

hehe…
was my story…now its yours..tmrw someone else’s…

very fine take-aways, I must say. thanks for sharing this.

stay well,
asuph

Funny are these times when we willingly subject ourselves to so much pain. I wish you happy Sakshi

From what we know of you, Sakshi you are a fantastic person. So baby don’t worry because only good things happen to good people (as yourself). Best wishes.

Sakshi the link to your song isn’t working ; )

Though the person/people we have been in love with will always have a special place in our hearts (even if we’re not in contact with them) it is possible to move on from being “in love” to just “loving” them, so that one day we can be “in love” again.

So yes, agree with everything you’ve written. I believe that everything happens for a reason - and that God works for our good through everything (if our hearts are pure).

As far as support goes, Saks, I’m always here (umbrella et al) whenever you need a friend. And I’d wager, that anyone who’s ever known you, would be there for you when you need it, because you’re that sort of person.

Love & Hugs. Always.

There is no one person in this world with the following qualities:

1. Never regrets his or her past in the present
2. Never does something bad in the present
3. Keeping his or her future in his or her control to avoid the undesirable

So, a man or woman is a living storehouse of happiness, sadness, mystery, curiosity, self-pity and vision.

Happiness because one finds some things happy for some reasons.

Sadness because all things are not in one’s control.

Mystery because many things are unknown to one despite best inquiry.

Curiosity because nobody is perfect in everything and so wishes to know more.

Self-pity because some misunderstand one, some hate one, some keep one away from their company, some play villain roles against one and God also remains unkind toward one many times. Something is always missing in one’s life and so self-pity is inbuilt in human psyche. A woman is more vulnerable creature than man. So she must be more careful to avoid this void or predicament of known nature.

Vision because every person does have some plans for tomorrow to keep it better than yesterday and every time it may not be possible to do the same tomorrow.

Any person, having a little interaction with you, understands that you are one of the best girls in India. By best girl, I mean the following:

1. She takes speedy decisions now and then not because she is arrogant or snobbish but because she is hectic attending so many things. She may hurt others that way sometimes but the fact is she did not intend it really.

2. She tries to be frank with many but all of them may not be able to understand or appreciate that frankness.

3. She thinks and worries about many things and does something to help others. Every little help she renders is great because it is a service.

4. She often turns introvert because she can’t share the deepest of her heartstrings with others because she things they are her very personal. She thus suffers for some days and then recovers. Time only heals her.

5. She often fails to discern between good and bad because nobody ever defined it perfectly in a manner that is applicable universally. She must not be blamed for this.

6. She is a child at heart but often tries to project herself like an adult and many misunderstand her in that process. Everybody behaves like a child now and then and so she is also a common human being. Everybody is supposed to forgive her and love more to keep her happy.

7. Since you did not marry any fellow nor in love with any good fellow right now, you are concentrating your energy on trivial things most of the time. When you think too much in a certain direction, even the best things appears like the worst things. The problem is with over contemplation on something, not in the person attending it. Marry a handsome guy or fall in love with some good guy. You would start seeing the exceptional beauty of this world. A beautiful and sensitive girl like you is never supposed to be away from the sweetness and vitality of love expressed by a good boy. A good boy India misses a good love or wife if you remain unmarried. Many bad girls are marrying good boys and torturing their partners. Hope you are not such a bad girl. Share your love with a boy. He might be your husband or lover. Consult your parents or brothers or most admired well-wishers for advice in this direction if you are clueless. Age gone never returns. Marriage and love are sweet. Embrace them honestly and sensitively. You would glorify your life soon with the blessings of God.

8. Pray God always to keep you going in the right path. If anybody argues with you strongly, just think that he or she is very innocent. Instead of telling him or her, “Just shut up”, try “Please my friend stop it. I can’t bear it. Please please please.” Please, sorry and Thank you have great power. The British conquered the world with these niceties of speech and behavior with foreigners. Follow their route.

Thanks.

Jugchiloo Mombasu

Visited ur blog to say..keep up the good work and was pleasure to have met with u last month. And faltered upon this post..

All I would say is , been there , done that. Life is not about one person. And then… “you lost someone who did not love u but he lost some one who loved him. Say who should be sorry?”

Not the most appropiate “first comment on the blog” but could not help sharing it.

take care.

Very true!!
It is important to give ourselves a chance else we often tend to miss out on the ones which would have truly enjoyed and loved… more in case of matters of the heart!!
Cheerio!!

good to have you back…cheer up