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Right to Life: Should One Take the Test?

I was recently asked to write a speech on whether pre-marital HIV testing should be made mandatory. Although I have been working in the HIV/AIDS field for about a year, and I am a little familiar with this subject, I hadn’t given it the serious thought that it merits.

_39402221_marriage_hiv_203 My first instinct was a big resounding YES! Of course, it should be made mandatory. No one should be put at risk for HIV/AIDS infection. After all, even though now infected persons can lead full and healthy lives for many years, it is a dangerous disease that not only an individual has to live with for his/her entire life, but also dumps emotional and financial burden on his/her family.

Plus one is always at a high risk of transferring the Virus to someone else – a partner or to a baby. Also I have come across enough stories and incidents where a young woman would be married to an individual like you and me, and would find out during her pregnancy to find herself infected, with her in-laws either in the know of her husband’s HIV status or with the full blame of the infection placed squarely on the poor girl’s shoulders. I also know that it can happen the other way around, with the young woman infecting the man that she marries.

Yes, definitely a premarital HIV test is necessary.

However, as I studied this in more detail, I came across some arguments against what seems like a completely logical position to take on this subject.

Firstly, the UN guidelines state that NO ONE (not the central government, not the state government, not the doctor, not the nurse, not the counsellor, not the brother, sister, father, mother, wife, child – NO ONE) can force an individual to test for HIV/AIDS. Okay. So you can’t do mandatory testing. However, you can advise patients to get the test done as part of routine medical care as suggested by the UN. And most importantly, once an individual or couple does get tested, there should be mandatory counselling to ensure that they are made aware of HIV/AIDS, its risks and prevention methods. Also, if this test is made so routine, there will be heightened awareness of HIV and it will no longer be something that happens only to people we don’t know.

Secondly, even if an individual does get tested and the result is a negative, there is no guarantee that the person does not have the Virus. It usually takes up to 3 months for the HIV antibodies to show up in a person’s blood, and in some cases, up to 6 months. That’s scary, eh? What is one to do if the groom contracts the Virus during a really rambunctious bachelor party the night before his wedding?

Recently, an intern with my organization (Lets call him A.H.) stopped on the road to help an accident victim. The victim was an auto rickshaw driver, who was bleeding profusely and was stuck under his vehicle. A.H. got off the vehicle he was travelling in, and helped get the injured driver out from under the auto rickshaw, and in the process, cut his hand. He didn’t think much of the cut on his hand at that moment. However, later, his room-mate (also an intern with us) cleaned the wound on A.H.’s hand and wondered if he was at risk of contracting any blood-borne diseases, especially HIV/AIDS. That was a scary moment! I can see that thought crossing his mind – the thought of having to live with HIV/AIDS for the rest of his life – just because of a good deed that he did. The next morning we called the doctor who basically told us that there was NOTHING that we could do at that moment, and had to wait at least 3 weeks or more for the Virus strain to show in a blood sample, and then too it would not mean that A.H. could be certain that he is HIV negative. To be absolutely certain, A.H. would have to get tested again six months after the incident. Imagine being on tenterhooks for six months to know whether your life has been altered permanently.

Fortunately, today we have very advanced tests that can give very accurate results within 3 weeks of an infection. Prohibiting factors with the PCR test are that this test is very expensive and not easily available. Therefore, logistically and financially speaking, most young Indians would need to wait 3 months to know their HIV status.

support Other arguments why HIV tests should not be made mandatory include Stigma and Discrimination. How would an individual, who happens to be HIV positive, even think of leading a normal life in a society where external image is all that matters? In response to this, I would say that why not keep the HIV status confidential? We keep salaries confidential. We keep our private lives confidential. Then why not our HIV status, with the caveat that the spouse or the spouse to be must be informed.

So what it all boils down to is - premarital HIV test allows for a RIGHT to a safe happy life that a couple can choose to take. However, our own pre-conceived notions about the disease, our family’s discomfort and our society’s mental block may stop many of us from taking up this right. But at times, something as insignificant as our pre-conceived notions can end up being a matter of life and death.

And therefore I believe it’s simply question of one’s right. What about you?

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Kaushal Karkhanis
Jan 19th, 2008 at 7:40 pm | #

Very well written, Saks. I didn’t know a lot of these things myself. I’ve myself been in a position like A.H. once, and I was a bit freaked out too. I had no cuts though. Personally I’m also pro testing, but as you said - its probably not that easy to make it mandatory. Couples should ideally confide with each other before marriage about their HIV status and amicably get tested. Heck people get prenups even, so why not this?!

IdeaSmith
Jan 20th, 2008 at 6:44 am | #

Sonal, you’ve raised a pertinent point. Several, in fact. I’m not married and I often think that if and when I do get married, I would want a complete medical check-up done on my future spouse. I would obviously be willing to undergo the same and yes, HIV/AIDS is my prime concern. But I am also unsure of how to express this to family, friends and other people who will be concerned in the entire matter. I just let it go thinking I’ll cross the bridge when I come to it.

I take your point of mandatory testing causing even more discrimination becuase of social stigma. However, in a marriage, I think both partners have an absolute right to complete knowledge of what they’re getting into - physical, emotional and financial implications.

And finally, I think this campaign will actually furthur HIV/AIDS awareness and go some way in ridding the stigma of everything connected to the disease.

Great post!

Brad
Jan 20th, 2008 at 7:29 pm | #

So if a person is seeing somebody, s/he should consummate the relationship only after a health-checkup. Or does this post conform only to an arranged marriage situation. It would be really ironical, as you have mentioned if the person were to contract an STD at a party the night before the wedding. Well, if s/he has been careful before, chances are s/he would be careful to not venture into a potentially risky situation. And what if the spouse gets into an extramarital affair and then contracts the virus! So, all in all, a ‘medical test’ is probably not the best way to judge if you are going to be safe; ‘choosing’ (for lack of a better word) a partner based on his/her character probably holds more weight in front of a medical checkup. Good post- food for more thought.

Sonal
Jan 21st, 2008 at 9:56 am | #

@kaushal: You are right that people should confide in each other before they marry. But that becomes almost impossible when you consider the high number of arranged marriages that take place in our country. And more so when you imagine this to occur in a rural setting. That’s why I would advocate institutionalising HIV tests rather than leaving it to people - again its a matter of life or death, right?

@Ideasmith: Thank you. Yes - the toughest part is confiding in family. That’s why, again, if this test becomes as common as getting a test for blood sugar done, it would take away the stigma and confusion of asking your Right. Hopefully, both you and your partner will mutually agree on this! :)

@Brad: You are very right!!! Alas - with time, people do change and sometimes so does their character! Hopefully if this test becomes routine, then people will be more aware of HIV, its risks and prevention methods, and will have an easier time retaining their character!!! ;)

Brad
Jan 22nd, 2008 at 5:53 am | #

On continued thoughts- one doesn’t need to be worried about asking the ‘arranged partner’ for a test result document; one could take the required tests and submit their results to the other party and let them get the hint as to what is expected of them as well.

Well, let’s say you did take my suggestion and gave an unassuming Mr. Right a document attesting your health status, wouldn’t he be right in the following-
-assume you have had safe sex with god-alone-knows how many partners!!! OR
-you have never had sex ever neither have you gotten into a high-risk situation!!! OR
-you got lucky many times and then got lucky some more (pun intended)!!!
-you have a kind doctor who forges documents for you.

Hmmm…Conundrum…eh! By the way, this post reminds me of Gattaca.

Saakshi O. Juneja
Jan 22nd, 2008 at 6:12 am | #

In my opinion this is the sad bit - our society by default assumes that we are talking about sex, when individuals are requested to undergo an HIV/AIDS test. Obviously, one cannot be blamed for thinking in such “rigid” manner but we need to understand that sex is just one of the ways in which a heathly person can get infected. As Sonal pointed out in the post - many a times an HIV positive person isn’t even aware of his/her health condition.

I believe in Arranged Marriage - it should be a must to ask for a premarital HIV testing, even if the other party highly reputed, well to do, etc etc.

When it comes to Love tangles - Yes, character does play an important part. But if I intend jump into the sack with the other, even if trust is not an issue, I would ask them to get tested.

At the end of the day, its about safety of my health and thereby my future and frankly I really don’t give a flying crap to what society thinks is right or wrong.

Sue
Jan 23rd, 2008 at 6:13 pm | #

Although my boyfriend and I knew each other for over five years before we decided to get married, and even though I knew I was the first (and only) woman he’d slept with, we decided to have the test done. I suggested it, saying that I had had more than one partner, had unsafe sex and generally, it was the right thing to do. He had no objections so we went ahead. The attitude at the clinic was quite funny, all those hushed voices!

I’m glad we did this because now I can tell other couples to go ahead as well. And I think it’s a sign of concern for your spouse to be to take the test. It’s not something you’re doing for yourself (or you’d have done it already.)

puranjoy
Jan 23rd, 2008 at 9:08 pm | #

Umm, it should not be made mandatory by the govt because the govt should not have any business interfering in a marriage. Even if there were no stigma associated with HIV. Even if we had institutions administering the tests for free.

src
Feb 10th, 2008 at 6:14 pm | #

Hi, I am a lurker, delurking to say that your post reminded me of myself. Only I was even more cautious and any guy who proposed to me was told to go meet my mom, and the first one who did was the one I married. Well, it proved that he had the guts to do so, and of course after that I took a suitable amount of time to check him out.

HIV Chat
Mar 9th, 2009 at 5:43 am | #

I think it is a good idea to have expecting mothers tested for HIV (too bad it cannot be anonymous results). I do not agree to force people to get tested, but I do believe all women should get tested before giving birth. If they find out they are HIV positive, they can almost eliminate (less than 1% chance) the chances of baby getting HIV by following the CDC guidelines (C-section birth, 6 weeks of AZT treatment for baby and mother) and making sure the mother doesn’t breast feed (HIV virus can be transmitted through breast milk).

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Rahul Singh
Mar 25th, 2009 at 12:56 pm | #

HIV Test shall be mandatory, once we are able to change the pseudo social broad mindedness. Our Society boast of Pseudo cultural ethos,which are inbuild in our customs, making HIV a more complicated problem then it is.

If we take HIV/AIDS as dieases then every one should go for the test and society should support the people as we do if communicated by some other dieases.

The difference will be made if change our social thoughts.

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