Comments on: It’s Not Easy To Be Me http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/ Don't just sit there...do something ! Fri, 22 Oct 2010 19:23:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: Brad http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-100378 Brad Fri, 18 Jan 2008 04:36:51 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-100378 Hmmm...OK. <strike><blockquote cite="However things take a different turn when people very close to your heart point out those aspects of your character which you either thought never existed or preferred to ignore (more like what you don’t see, doesn’t hurt). "></blockquote>Are you saying that the words of your 'friends' have a tint of truth in them</strike> Being 'rigid' and 'emotionally insensitive' and 'emotionally non-dependent', Alright bebe, why are you trying to mime me now! But humor apart, what's the fun if you are not a bit of all these? You might as well be a stone that is kicked around by people, c'mon you are insensitive and you wouldn't feel a thing! Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way, does it!? You wouldn't want people's words to dictate who you are; so what if some nincompoops tell you something that you don't like (be it the truth) that shouldn't compel you into metamorphosizing into some thing else! ...and you thought only you could rant! Hmmm…OK.


Are you saying that the words of your ‘friends’ have a tint of truth in them

Being ‘rigid’ and ‘emotionally insensitive’ and ‘emotionally non-dependent’, Alright bebe, why are you trying to mime me now! But humor apart, what’s the fun if you are not a bit of all these? You might as well be a stone that is kicked around by people, c’mon you are insensitive and you wouldn’t feel a thing! Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way, does it!?

You wouldn’t want people’s words to dictate who you are; so what if some nincompoops tell you something that you don’t like (be it the truth) that shouldn’t compel you into metamorphosizing into some thing else!

…and you thought only you could rant!

]]> By: the mad momma http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-100001 the mad momma Wed, 16 Jan 2008 08:27:00 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-100001 Exes are ex for a good reason :) Exes are ex for a good reason :)

]]> By: Saakshi O. Juneja http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-99120 Saakshi O. Juneja Sat, 12 Jan 2008 07:42:57 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-99120 <strong>Bro from NG</strong> - Bade Bhaiya, mein apna kaam khud nipta leti hoon. Anyway thanks for the offer. ;) <strong>Ariti</strong> - Thank you babes. :) <strong>Amrita</strong> - I too believe that; its impossible to be friends with the exes but this one too is from "exceptional" category. As for the friend, she is wonderful and I am sure didn't mean it from the heart. And yes, madam how can I not listen to you. Smooches to you too. :) Bro from NG – Bade Bhaiya, mein apna kaam khud nipta leti hoon. Anyway thanks for the offer. ;)

Ariti – Thank you babes. :)

Amrita – I too believe that; its impossible to be friends with the exes but this one too is from “exceptional” category. As for the friend, she is wonderful and I am sure didn’t mean it from the heart.

And yes, madam how can I not listen to you. Smooches to you too. :)

]]> By: Amrita http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-99109 Amrita Sat, 12 Jan 2008 06:45:03 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-99109 This is why I try not to speak to my exes [well, except for two and they're both exceptional people who wouldnt say lame stuff like <i>No wonder you lost me.</i>]. I dont know what the context was for both these conversations but at a certain point, you have to draw a line with some people. Voice of long experience speaking, please listen. Smooches! This is why I try not to speak to my exes [well, except for two and they're both exceptional people who wouldnt say lame stuff like No wonder you lost me.]. I dont know what the context was for both these conversations but at a certain point, you have to draw a line with some people. Voice of long experience speaking, please listen.
Smooches!

]]> By: Arti Honrao http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-99000 Arti Honrao Fri, 11 Jan 2008 21:21:04 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-99000 I would say that your ex is in fact trying to convince himself that you did not deserve him instead of it being other way round. Though I do not know what the issue might have been, I can smell that he is the losing party here. As far as your friend is concerned ... shame on that friend. I remember seeing your picture on your blog long back when I had first visited here. It spoke volumes and it did not say anything even close to what your so called friend says about you. Perhaps you are right, sometimes it is better to be rigid. GBU Arti I would say that your ex is in fact trying to convince himself that you did not deserve him instead of it being other way round. Though I do not know what the issue might have been, I can smell that he is the losing party here.

As far as your friend is concerned … shame on that friend.
I remember seeing your picture on your blog long back when I had first visited here. It spoke volumes and it did not say anything even close to what your so called friend says about you.

Perhaps you are right, sometimes it is better to be rigid.

GBU
Arti

]]> By: Sakshi fan http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-98936 Sakshi fan Fri, 11 Jan 2008 14:31:50 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-98936 Sakshi , Give me address of your Ex. Nobody can say like that to sakshi & get away with it. I really mean it Your Bro from NG Sakshi ,

Give me address of your Ex. Nobody can say like that to sakshi & get away with it.

I really mean it

Your Bro from NG

]]> By: Saakshi O. Juneja http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-98913 Saakshi O. Juneja Fri, 11 Jan 2008 12:46:28 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-98913 <strong>Asuph</strong> - Yes, boss. How can I deny you this pleasure especially when you have been so nice (for a change). ;) <strong>Neeti </strong>- Thanks yaar. Asuph – Yes, boss. How can I deny you this pleasure especially when you have been so nice (for a change). ;)

Neeti - Thanks yaar.

]]> By: Neeti http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-98646 Neeti Thu, 10 Jan 2008 17:44:09 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-98646 Hey, Though I know very little about you (from reading your blog i.e.) noone deserves to put up with such nonsense from any person (ex or some long lost friend)-I'd say good riddance to such people. If they believe the world needs their character certificate, they've some serious thinking to do... Hope you don't stay down and out... Cheer up babe... Hey,
Though I know very little about you (from reading your blog i.e.)
noone deserves to put up with such nonsense from any person (ex or some long lost friend)-I’d say good riddance to such people. If they believe the world needs their character certificate, they’ve some serious thinking to do…
Hope you don’t stay down and out… Cheer up babe…

]]> By: asuph http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-98529 asuph Thu, 10 Jan 2008 09:50:40 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-98529 Sakshi, You're welcome. Actually about the "wrong blog" comment (you know where ;-)), I owe you an apology, for the wrong conclusions. Although I still think that mixing those two issues in one blog was a grave (tactical) error on your part, once you have clarified, I don't see the point of continuing with assuming you meant something else. (That's always been my stand, ain't it? The circle is complete, kind of). And get back to your spirits soon. Ye isme kuch maza nahin hai. I cannot take potshots at your blogs while you're down :). regards, asuph. Sakshi, You’re welcome.

Actually about the “wrong blog” comment (you know where ;-) ), I owe you an apology, for the wrong conclusions. Although I still think that mixing those two issues in one blog was a grave (tactical) error on your part, once you have clarified, I don’t see the point of continuing with assuming you meant something else. (That’s always been my stand, ain’t it? The circle is complete, kind of).

And get back to your spirits soon. Ye isme kuch maza nahin hai. I cannot take potshots at your blogs while you’re down :) .

regards,
asuph.

]]> By: Saakshi O. Juneja http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/comment-page-1/#comment-98511 Saakshi O. Juneja Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:19:07 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2008/01/09/its-not-easy-to-be-me/#comment-98511 <strong>Sneha </strong> - No re, won't lie...they both are/were worth it. :) <strong>IdeaSmith</strong> - Thanks, hon. :) <strong>Asuph</strong> - I guess at times its not even about mis-understandings, its has to do with taking a relationship for granted...so much so we refuse to understand the other party even when you know they are not be blamed. And at times "external factors" also have a big role to play. But I totally agree with you..."there is nothing that cannot be talked out" especially when it comes to close relationships. As for your question <em>"Why do I take it to the heart"</em>...well it is the matter of the heart after all. :) Plus there maybe a bit truth in it but then in my case even "ego" of both the parties also played an important role. Anyway thanks a ton for this comment and I do really mean it. (And hopefully, one day you will realize that "this" blog isn't one of the wrong ones you have been reading lately ;) ) <strong>Preman </strong>- Yup I know. :) <strong>Gaurav</strong> - I am trying. Thanks...and yes, Sallu does help. <strong>Broom</strong> - Babes, dil ka mamla hai re, kya karoon! :) Sneha – No re, won’t lie…they both are/were worth it. :)

IdeaSmith – Thanks, hon. :)

Asuph – I guess at times its not even about mis-understandings, its has to do with taking a relationship for granted…so much so we refuse to understand the other party even when you know they are not be blamed. And at times “external factors” also have a big role to play. But I totally agree with you…”there is nothing that cannot be talked out” especially when it comes to close relationships.

As for your question “Why do I take it to the heart”…well it is the matter of the heart after all. :) Plus there maybe a bit truth in it but then in my case even “ego” of both the parties also played an important role.

Anyway thanks a ton for this comment and I do really mean it. (And hopefully, one day you will realize that “this” blog isn’t one of the wrong ones you have been reading lately ;) )

Preman - Yup I know. :)

Gaurav – I am trying. Thanks…and yes, Sallu does help.

Broom – Babes, dil ka mamla hai re, kya karoon! :)

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