Vitusha Oberoi’s tactics - Journalism, ganda hai aur dhanda hai yeh.

Trust is one heck of an important word when combined with relationships. It is what helps us all to bond with others; be it family, friends or colleague. It is often said that “It takes a life-time to build a relationship and only a moment to break it” - but still there are many among us who do not hesitate when it comes to humiliating this important ‘trusting’ factor as long as it serves their purpose or hidden agendas.

My friends often joke around saying that they won’t disclose any of the (known) Bollywood gossips or in-side stories because of my Blogging obsession, especially when it comes to Bollywood. Not that my blogging passion actually stops them from opening their loud-mouths in my presence nor does it stops me from writing about those valuable filmy scoops (atleast some of them if not all). The thing is even though we are bonded together in a circle of age-old friendships, we are still very much aware of our responsibilities towards one another and those who re-side outside our circle.

But every now-and-then we come across people for whom life is more fruitful beyond the matters of relationships and trust. Just the way we watch our Bollywood movies run around the ‘betrayal’ and ‘back-stabbing’ themes, similarly stories from reel life are imitated in real life.

And here is a perfect example.

For the past couple of days, Vitusha Oberoi of Mid-day has been hogging the lime-light with her sensational story declaring Rahul Mahajan a ‘wife-beater’. In her news article she revealed that Rahul Mahajan’s marriage to Shweta is on a verge of collapse because of Rahul’s obsessive nature and over-the-roof anger. According to her, all of this shocking information was given to her by not a source but the victim herself aka. Shweta Mahajan.

Once the story appeared on the front page of the daily-newspaper, the Indian media practically went wild. Running from one end to another to dig-in more dirt; Rahul was questioned, Shweta was stalked and Ms. Vitusha Oberoi continued to make hay while the camera bulbs shined.

Whether Rahul is guilty or not! What could be the reasons behind Shweta’s denial of the labeled accusation on her husband - these questions will remain un-answered atleast till the people involved decide to come clean or open up. But what I find even more shocking is the fact that no one in the media (besides a few bloggers) haven bothered to question Vitusha’s morality here.

I mean surely (if the information is correct) Shweta must have had detailed discussions about her marital problems with the concerned writer, purely on the basis on ‘trusting a friend’. We all at one point or the other rely on her friends for support, advice and at times as a shoulder to cry on - but in Shweta’s tragic story, her friend traded in her personal grief for few glory moments and recognition.

It wouldn’t be wrong to assume that Ms. Oberoi was in it for satisfying her own aspirations, once the distressed woman (and her mother) called upon her friend for some advice and help - keeping their intimate conversation recorded on tape simply sets Vitusha’s intentions clear as crystal. Plus when Shweta refuted the published story instead of understanding a friend’s miserable plight, Vitusha Oberoi was busy giving television interviews, writing more articles on the same; all an attempt to prove herself and her written work.

One can only imagine Shweta’s mental state, not only has she being ill-treated by her so called soul-mate but also has her trust be thrashed apart by the person she considered her confidant. And to top things up, her personal life has become a public debate and tea-time conversation.

Taking ones job seriously is understandable but to stoop so low and indulge in cheap tactics, just for some short-lived success is just appalling and sick - People like Vitusha Oberoi only further degrade the profession of journalism. In short, Journalism has become nothing but a sort of dhanda with no ounce of soul or integrity.

Ms. Vitusha’s tactics also raises another important question - Can Journalists ever be trusted?

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Deep
Nov 24th, 2006 at 11:03 am | #

Actually, I even tried to get in touch with Vitusha by emailing her but like all the mid-day mailboxs, my mail bounced back. But i personally feel it happened all because of politics.. one party says, open some secrets of someone in public, i give u xx money.. so one openes the diary.. it is a dirty game but we have to live with it.. now no shweta all Rahul Mahajan will be see on TV screens…no answers to the questions raised by public… it all vanished…

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Anshul
Nov 24th, 2006 at 11:26 am | #

Exactly my point Sakshi. Bravo!

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Debashish
Nov 24th, 2006 at 5:08 pm | #

I see this development differently. Without going into the debate of the story being factually correct or not I think Newspapers do need to publish such stories in public interest. Rahul is a public figure after he entered politics, tomorrow he may run for a high-office the public must be told about his background and activities. The in-laws, sons, grandsons of out politicians have been running amok for quite long, thinking they have a secured political career ahead not due to any worth of theirs but the prowess of their khandaan. They need to be exposed. I think the journo needs credits for not letting her personal relations get in way of her duty as reporter.

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Saakshi O. Juneja
Nov 25th, 2006 at 8:16 am | #

Debashish - Agree the “Truth” behind public figures need to thrown open to the public but I guess there should be a “limit” or some “integrity” involved init as well. Rahul is aspiring to become a politician but not his wife. The only doesn’t only involve him but her also…and more than anyone else it is Shweta who will be faced with further trauma. Maybe, Vitusha could have opened up the entire intimate story after Shweta had walked off the marriage or atleast was ready for it being made a public affair.

For a woman its a totally different chapter as compared to a man. Tomorrow we all shall move past this episode…but it her who will have to live with it life-long. Certain issues require to be handled sensibly and delicately….we owe it to our friends.

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Born a Libran
Nov 25th, 2006 at 11:27 pm | #

Sab andaar ka khel ho sakta hai… Shayad Shweta ne hi recording karwai thi ye sochke ki baad mei pressure aayega… Sab politics hai bhai… Its like Chess… She might think of this news article as the easiest way out of a rocky marriage with a politico big wig…

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s madan
Nov 26th, 2006 at 8:22 am | #

I think it was might have been a breach of trust but to be absolutely sure, a few questions need to be answered.
A) Did Shweta know her conversation was being taped?
B) Was Vithusha’s intention to gain publicity for herself by writing about this or gather public support for Shweta?
C) WHat is Vithusha’s gain vs her loss by writing about this?

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amrita
Feb 6th, 2008 at 11:19 am | #

now that the Rahul “is a wife beater” fact is out and their marriage is collapsing… what do you hve to say about Vitusha’s “tactics”??

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