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The Rape Drape

One more woman raped:one more human being violated. Another rape charge…another crime committed ..one more faceless victim. And another family dragged into the muck! OK, to be politically correct two more families dragged through the public glare. (We have to wait for the full course of justice to prevail before pronouncing a verdict on the innocence of either the perpetrators or the victim.)

Why rape/molest? Why force a victim into something that is so gruesome? Why show-off one’s strength on the weaker sex? Why knowingly scar a person’s life forever? What drives people into committing such ghastly crimes?

Abhishek Kasliwal (27), the son of Ambuj Kasliwal, promoters of the Rs. 1,500-crore S Kumars group, was arrested after a 52-year-old widow and mother-of-two said he repeatedly raped her in the Sriram Mills premises on Saturday morning.

Although the woman named the alleged assailant as Vicky Malhotra, who picked her up from south Mumbai and took her to Shree Ram Mills at Worli where she was allegedly raped and hit, police named Abhishek as the accused after the watchman of the Mill admitted to having seen the woman accompany Abhishek that night. During the sexual assault, she sustained bruises on the neck and her right arm was twisted, she said. The victim, after being dropped at Colaba by Kasliwal, went to the police station and registered a complaint. A medical examination at GT Hospital, Marine Lines, confirmed that she had been raped. The police are awaiting the medical report on Kasliwal.

A man with a history of making obscene and lewd gestures at public places has also been accused of another sexual assault on a young girl working at a local call-centre.

Also known by friends, as a speed junkie who loved spending most of his free time tinkering with mean machines in his own garage at Shree Ram Mills.

A son of a scion and a lady almost double his age. Inconsistencies have already begun to appear in the victim’s statement. Clashing evidences complicating a case; who is society to blame?

This story has been labeled “breaking news” by majority mainstream media, but is it really worth so much coverage? What if the accused belonged to a middle class upbringing, then the same act would have been relegated to back pages with perhaps no mention in the televised news.

His family unlike other families wants the law to take its own course, they haven’t tried to intervene in any way nor have they visited the accused in prison. It’s a shame how a culprit’s family gets dragged into his dirt for no fault of theirs. It’s a daily struggle for them until the case may subside or sometimes even after the accused is sentenced for life. A heritage reputation damaged within days.

In my opinion the most likely result of this on-going episode would be an out-of-court settlement. The victim would walk away with a lot of money and the accused with his freedom.

Once again behind this high profile rape case, taken up by main-stream media, hundreds of marital and street rapes would go un-noticed.

UPDATE :

Temporal’s wise words : rape: losing face and self-respect

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temporal
Mar 17th, 2006 at 10:03 pm | #

thanks for inspiring:)

Sailesh
Mar 21st, 2006 at 2:11 am | #

Excellent post. You are right that if the perpetrator was a middle-class man, the new would’ve gone unnoticed. We don’t know how many such news items we never read. We don’t know how many more such despicable acts were never even reported.

I don’t agree with one thing though:

>Why knowingly scar a person’s life forever?
I don’t think it scars a person for life! We live in a society where a rape victim is ostracized. We need to change this view. We need to start looking at rape victims as somebody who went through a misfortune. We need to let them continue their life. I am afraid, most people would probably expect these rape victims to be sad and depressed forever. We need to help them put this behind them and move on.

Keep up the good work. Now that you are in my desktop aggregator, I will be watching you ;)

Vaibhav
May 4th, 2006 at 1:11 pm | #

Well, i truly agree to your point that whether or not the victim is guilty or not at least the victims family should not be involved and used to market the case.its great from the familys part to not interfere in the court proceedings and their name n heritage sholud not be brought in the case as they dont have any fault.all this media hype will result in damaging the image of a family for no fault of theirs, only because of one person(even which is not sure).
its high time that media presents news that is more socially valuable rather than news which are more marketable.ethics have to take over moentary needs soon or else it will be too late.

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