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		<title>By: Niyomi</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-7798</link>
		<dc:creator>Niyomi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jul 2006 05:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hii guys i am actually doing an extended essay on date rape drugs soo if any of you can help me with some more information on it ill be really thankful. Its about gurls geting raped with these rape drugs in nightclubs in bombay. I cud also use your views on it. Thnx...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hii guys i am actually doing an extended essay on date rape drugs soo if any of you can help me with some more information on it ill be really thankful. Its about gurls geting raped with these rape drugs in nightclubs in bombay. I cud also use your views on it. Thnx&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ricky</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-4143</link>
		<dc:creator>Ricky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Apr 2006 05:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such rape drugs should be banned. Media is provdiing soo much info regarding it that new people are buying it. Just one request to all work on banning these drugs rather than publicising them

Ricky</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such rape drugs should be banned. Media is provdiing soo much info regarding it that new people are buying it. Just one request to all work on banning these drugs rather than publicising them</p>
<p>Ricky</p>
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		<title>By: To Each It&#8217;s Own &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Women and Mumbai Part 2 - Undercover operation</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-1192</link>
		<dc:creator>To Each It&#8217;s Own &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Women and Mumbai Part 2 - Undercover operation</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2006 11:27:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Just couple of days ago, I wrote a post on Mumbai Women, who are enjoying every bit of their freedom without any fear and society pressure. Then the un-fortunate incident occoured, rape of a South African model by two of her male friends&#8230;.which high-lighted the growing number of Date Rape incidents India. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Just couple of days ago, I wrote a post on Mumbai Women, who are enjoying every bit of their freedom without any fear and society pressure. Then the un-fortunate incident occoured, rape of a South African model by two of her male friends&#8230;.which high-lighted the growing number of Date Rape incidents India. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: kris</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-1188</link>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2006 06:37:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Literacy is main reason for rape incidents. Goverment should consider including a section in the school and college books which teaches to respect girls, no, not like worshipping them as Goddesses or anything. But to learn to respect their feelings also.
The incidents can be attributed to pervertness, depiction of rape in movies....
Girls should also be careful to not becoming a victim. Since there seems to be no end to the rape incidents.

@neha
what you say is absolutely right. Going by what IndiaCorporateWatch tries to say, a day will come when no girl would be asked to walk on the streets and meet guys (even if it is their professor)...

Every girl can be equipped with GPRS so that their parents can track where ever they are!!! With technology improvements, there should a switch to press to alert police when they are attacked. 
But if its sex of choice, please do not accuse the guy of rape...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Literacy is main reason for rape incidents. Goverment should consider including a section in the school and college books which teaches to respect girls, no, not like worshipping them as Goddesses or anything. But to learn to respect their feelings also.<br />
The incidents can be attributed to pervertness, depiction of rape in movies&#8230;.<br />
Girls should also be careful to not becoming a victim. Since there seems to be no end to the rape incidents.</p>
<p>@neha<br />
what you say is absolutely right. Going by what IndiaCorporateWatch tries to say, a day will come when no girl would be asked to walk on the streets and meet guys (even if it is their professor)&#8230;</p>
<p>Every girl can be equipped with GPRS so that their parents can track where ever they are!!! With technology improvements, there should a switch to press to alert police when they are attacked.<br />
But if its sex of choice, please do not accuse the guy of rape&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: POV &#187; Blog Archive &#187;</title>
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		<dc:creator>POV &#187; Blog Archive &#187;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2006 08:43:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Sandeep rants about reservations in the private sector, and Sakshi about the issue of date rape. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: indiacorporatewatch</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-1176</link>
		<dc:creator>indiacorporatewatch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2006 18:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well some of you have put words in my mouth and over-reacted

I have specifically said that &quot;Date Rape&quot; is a cultural import from the west
as there is no consistent precedent or history of such acts being commited 
and labeled as such here in India until now... 

I am only telling you date rapes were uncommon until some years ago 
because the concept of going on a date did not exist here in the east
Not until western influences arrived..

I hope we can differntiate between &quot;rape&quot; and &quot;date rape&quot; ?

Like sakshi said

Rape is forced sexual intercourse with an adult woman without her consent or when consent is obtained by fear.

While
Date rape is rape where the victim knows the rapist, either closely or casually. The assault in this case is usually drug-facilitated.

We are only discussing the specific subject of &quot;date rape&quot; here not the subject of &#039;rape&#039; the scope of which is
much wider 

Nowhere have I denied rape occurs in India
Nowhere have I said people should not go out on a date 
Nowhere have I said Indian culture is progressive and 
doesn&#039;t treat women like shit.

Solving the problem at root will involve tackling the places where these occur like
nightclubs,the instrument used(drugs and alcohol),educating the people who face this problem
Nobody here in India has the resolve or incentive to do this

I frankly have no interests in the lifestyle problems of the upper classes

The lower classes whom I hold dear and number anywhere between
500 - 600 million in India have no time for dates.

But Rape is something that affects them and I do hope it will be tackled 
effectively in the coming days.
Though I am yet to see evidence that it will happen soon

Radical solutions like the one below must be experimented with to combat rape 

http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/5487/endingsexualharrasment5up.jpg</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well some of you have put words in my mouth and over-reacted</p>
<p>I have specifically said that &#8220;Date Rape&#8221; is a cultural import from the west<br />
as there is no consistent precedent or history of such acts being commited<br />
and labeled as such here in India until now&#8230; </p>
<p>I am only telling you date rapes were uncommon until some years ago<br />
because the concept of going on a date did not exist here in the east<br />
Not until western influences arrived..</p>
<p>I hope we can differntiate between &#8220;rape&#8221; and &#8220;date rape&#8221; ?</p>
<p>Like sakshi said</p>
<p>Rape is forced sexual intercourse with an adult woman without her consent or when consent is obtained by fear.</p>
<p>While<br />
Date rape is rape where the victim knows the rapist, either closely or casually. The assault in this case is usually drug-facilitated.</p>
<p>We are only discussing the specific subject of &#8220;date rape&#8221; here not the subject of &#8216;rape&#8217; the scope of which is<br />
much wider </p>
<p>Nowhere have I denied rape occurs in India<br />
Nowhere have I said people should not go out on a date<br />
Nowhere have I said Indian culture is progressive and<br />
doesn&#8217;t treat women like shit.</p>
<p>Solving the problem at root will involve tackling the places where these occur like<br />
nightclubs,the instrument used(drugs and alcohol),educating the people who face this problem<br />
Nobody here in India has the resolve or incentive to do this</p>
<p>I frankly have no interests in the lifestyle problems of the upper classes</p>
<p>The lower classes whom I hold dear and number anywhere between<br />
500 &#8211; 600 million in India have no time for dates.</p>
<p>But Rape is something that affects them and I do hope it will be tackled<br />
effectively in the coming days.<br />
Though I am yet to see evidence that it will happen soon</p>
<p>Radical solutions like the one below must be experimented with to combat rape </p>
<p><a href="http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/5487/endingsexualharrasment5up.jpg" rel="nofollow">http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/5487/endingsexualharrasment5up.jpg</a></p>
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		<title>By: neha</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-1173</link>
		<dc:creator>neha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2006 09:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Indiacorporatewatch: Your solution to ending date rape is not go out on a date at all!?! Ridiculous! What&#039;s next - women get raped on the streets, and hence must never go out!!!?? 

Your argument completely ignores the fact that rape is a part of Indian culture - deeply imbibed from years of patriarchal constructs. The only respect given to women is if they are &quot;good mothers&quot; and &quot;obedient wives&quot;. - Not far from respecting cows for similar behaviour! The notion is to understand that people&#039;s rights are being VIOLATED. In India, like most other countries - most rapes are committed by people known to the victim. And it&#039;s not just young girls who are vulnerable, young boys are as vulnerable. You&#039;re telling me that rapes were uncommon 400 years back? Or that rape was unheard of before we ahem.. imported Western Culture?? Culture is a dynamic concept - but damn.. that idea is wasted on you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Indiacorporatewatch: Your solution to ending date rape is not go out on a date at all!?! Ridiculous! What&#8217;s next &#8211; women get raped on the streets, and hence must never go out!!!?? </p>
<p>Your argument completely ignores the fact that rape is a part of Indian culture &#8211; deeply imbibed from years of patriarchal constructs. The only respect given to women is if they are &#8220;good mothers&#8221; and &#8220;obedient wives&#8221;. &#8211; Not far from respecting cows for similar behaviour! The notion is to understand that people&#8217;s rights are being VIOLATED. In India, like most other countries &#8211; most rapes are committed by people known to the victim. And it&#8217;s not just young girls who are vulnerable, young boys are as vulnerable. You&#8217;re telling me that rapes were uncommon 400 years back? Or that rape was unheard of before we ahem.. imported Western Culture?? Culture is a dynamic concept &#8211; but damn.. that idea is wasted on you.</p>
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		<title>By: sakshi</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-1172</link>
		<dc:creator>sakshi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2006 09:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jayan - I have recti-fied the mistake....sheeks...that was really rude. :)

indiacorporatewatch - To blame the West for all our miseries wont be correct. Agree Date Rape incidents will occur, but it&#039;s our responsibility to see that they are kept to the bare minimum. Girls need to be more careful during their outings, authorities should check that such drugs ae not handed out by the chemists without prescription...club owners should keep a watch, etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jayan &#8211; I have recti-fied the mistake&#8230;.sheeks&#8230;that was really rude. <img src='http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>indiacorporatewatch &#8211; To blame the West for all our miseries wont be correct. Agree Date Rape incidents will occur, but it&#8217;s our responsibility to see that they are kept to the bare minimum. Girls need to be more careful during their outings, authorities should check that such drugs ae not handed out by the chemists without prescription&#8230;club owners should keep a watch, etc.</p>
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		<title>By: Haridas Dave</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-1170</link>
		<dc:creator>Haridas Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2006 06:52:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please refer to my comment for the post Women &amp; Mumbai in this blog. The feelings are repeated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please refer to my comment for the post Women &amp; Mumbai in this blog. The feelings are repeated.</p>
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		<title>By: indiacorporatewatch</title>
		<link>http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/01/05/date-rape-a-new/comment-page-1/#comment-1160</link>
		<dc:creator>indiacorporatewatch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2006 17:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Date rape is direct cultural import from the west

A couple of decades ago 
Date rape was unheard of 
because
men and women never mixed so freely and 
consume alcohol together late into the night

Dates was something that the Arabs exported in
large quantities to India and we relished them

But today all that has changed

Are you surprised that date rape takes place ?

Date rape is here to stay as long as there
are  night clubs, drugs ,alcohol ,careless women
and perverted men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Date rape is direct cultural import from the west</p>
<p>A couple of decades ago<br />
Date rape was unheard of<br />
because<br />
men and women never mixed so freely and<br />
consume alcohol together late into the night</p>
<p>Dates was something that the Arabs exported in<br />
large quantities to India and we relished them</p>
<p>But today all that has changed</p>
<p>Are you surprised that date rape takes place ?</p>
<p>Date rape is here to stay as long as there<br />
are  night clubs, drugs ,alcohol ,careless women<br />
and perverted men.</p>
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