Comments on: Live-in relationship Vs. Marriage

By: subhranshu mishra

subhranshu mishra — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 06:11:39 +0000

I think this live-in-relationsip has some importance in society. First of all it reduce the divorce case in india . Then it is helpful to dominate dowry related problems. Marriage is the bond of two hearts and there are lot of liabilities starts after marriage. Which now a days people donot want to take.When the live in related couple will think they are able to take all responsibilities then they should bind them in marriage bond.In my opinion Live-In-Relationship means know each other and get married.

By: vicky

vicky — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 07:18:37 +0000

I think live in relationship should be encouraged because life is very precious.You can’t spoil your life with a partner with whom you are not comfortable.There is no boundation in this relationship.You can understand your partner.In,Most developed country, Northway,93% people are in live in relationship.This also avoids domestic problem…

By: dkc

dkc — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 08:52:30 +0000

just fell on your blog from a google search. i have to say you have very strong points. I think those persons who believe that cohabiting=’trying out a probable marriage’ are honestly mislead. this can explain why so many cohabitants delay (for many years) or even forego marriage all in all. When the couple breaks up, he/she rationalizes: “well, yea s/he wasnt the right person for me after all.” Yes, marriage is an institution and does need love. Love is patient, kind,…and bears all things. It takes alot of labor to maintain a marriage, to keep one’s vows of devotion to each other for life. So yea, it wont be easy but that’s part of being in a relationship. Love takes work as parents do so much sacrifice for their children. So why this ‘easy’ way out of trial-and-error of co-inhabiting? Where is the commitment nowadays? Why are we lowering our standards? The big fault of co-habitation as a commenter wrote is that “back door is always open”.

By: col

col — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 07:11:56 +0000

Dear friends,

This is to guys and girls you have experienced live in relationship and then got married.
The main basis of any boy and girl relationship is love and sex.
How this differ in live in and marriage.
comments.
Is love is more in marriage or in livein
is sex is more in marriage or live.
In which relationship people are satistied in respect of above love and sex
CJ

By: Jean

Jean — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 11:06:45 +0000

thanks a lot for that information…

marriage is really good but before you will go into it… you should make it sure that the person you are going to marry is the right person that God has given to you, the person that you love and loves you. marriage is a commitment that is why we should be careful in choosing the right one to avoid divorce.

marriage is good because it is beneficial to the children, the man and woman and unto the society. Another reason is that it leads us to a good health, happiness and security.

on the hand living in relationship leads us to a Bad Habit and impression because if we already try it we are addicted to it and wenever we are into relationship we always think that we can easily find a partner to replace of, from discontentment up to frustration and then suicide.

if you are into living in relationship, it is better for you not to have a child because your child is the one who supper everything you did.

By: Kiran

Kiran — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:31:49 +0000

Hi, In my last post, I would like to add that as mentioned by Rajesh, I fully agree that people expect those assembly system steps in a persons life. Especially if the girls age is more and is still single, people ask her about marriage hundred times. To be frank I really get annoyed if someone asks me about marriage. I like the western systems. But not all people have the same views about livein. Those who are happy in their married life (who luckily found a GOOD PARTNER !!) will favour the institution of marriage. While people who have failed in Marriage will support the livein system. I hope all the ladies will agree with me. I am supporting livein because I had a bad marriage as he was violent. If I would have stayed with him, I would have come to know about his behaviour before marriage. I FULLY SUPPORT LIVEIN SYSTEM.
Regards, Ms. Kiran

By: SAGAR TRIVEDI (srt)

SAGAR TRIVEDI (srt) — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 07:54:52 +0000

in marriage we can build relationship better than live -in relationship.
MARRIAGE IS LIKE A WE CAN GET BEETER STTTUS ALSO IN ASOCIETY. AFTER ALL WE ALL ARE LIVE IN SOCIETY. AND OUR SOCIETY NOT GIVVVING US A RIGHT TO BUILD LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP.
WE CAN GET A BETER STSTUS IN A SOCIETY.

By: SAGAR TRIVEDI

SAGAR TRIVEDI — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 07:42:02 +0000

i think that marriage is better than live in relationship.
by considering marriage we can know each others feelongs better than live in. in marriage person ready for help his or her partner always.

By: Hitesh

Hitesh — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 05:05:47 +0000

I feel deep down if I am given a state of comfortness with the points thoughtfully laid down by the author,it would be a gift i will be eternally grateful for.I mean while reading them if nothing irks under my skin then i will be a happier person irrespective of whether I marry,live-in,stay single,marry several women,or marry a woman for whom i am not the only husband.Ok oK i know blood boils to hear some of these options,but strangely there is a voice in me that says,hey u got your entire life to figure this out or you could do it now and live a way happier life than others.

Think about it the one who is secure in the knowledge that he/she is INSEcure in a huge way,that actually they could win a contest of insecurity if there was one.I know there are times when i could proudly bring the Mr.Universe of insecurity contest to India

I am talking about insecurity regarding my financial status,Educational qualifications,Career ladder position,Societal staus and don’t even talk about how I feel about my body this category insecurity award goes to me what do i hear someone challenging mua in this koyee hai idhar who can take away my “the most insecure about their looks person” award

Thanks Sakshi ! U did bring out some skeletons out of my closet(it’s a big closet hehe)

By: davang shah

davang shah — Sun, 15 Feb 2009 05:54:41 +0000

and interesting post there, i must say…

i don’t quite see that as much of a “choice” factor – espescially the urban “cultural inhabitants” wouldn’t, i think…

the idea of whether it is vice-versa isn’t really the point of the story – it’s what AFTER…

coz eventually, yes I agree the stigmata of a divorce is far greater than just a “break-up” (not necessariliy in that order on an emotional level) – would that fear make you rather