Comments on: Alimony – Are women mis-using the law ? http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/ Don't just sit there...do something ! Fri, 22 Oct 2010 19:23:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: Roshni http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-154276 Roshni Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:04:59 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-154276 Well, your question remains unanswered. why would the girl throw up everything within 3 months? just for the alimony amount? does not sound reasonable to me since she anyway comes from a family which is pretty well off. The bigger question is why are the guy s family avoiding a trial and the court. what are they trying to hide? why will they want to pay such a huge amount? To me there is an attempt at covering up. Well, your question remains unanswered. why would the girl throw up everything within 3 months? just for the alimony amount? does not sound reasonable to me since she anyway comes from a family which is pretty well off. The bigger question is why are the guy s family avoiding a trial and the court. what are they trying to hide? why will they want to pay such a huge amount? To me there is an attempt at covering up.

]]> By: Young http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-153228 Young Sat, 18 Jul 2009 19:12:10 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-153228 Here we go again. I've been the latest victim of this so called 'Crime in Silence'. Gold digging is a common feature in the west but now is rapidly catchig up in Indian metros as well. I've slogged my backside out throught out my teens and early youth to build a career. starting at a salary of 700 rupees a month in 1993 and now am having a stable career with a decent salary. Last year I did the most dreadful mistake ever of marrying someone. Got her to the UK. eight months have elapsed since the marraige consummated and i have gone thru several problems. From Police, to hospital to lawyers and what not. All that Anniruddha sen had to go thru has happened to me as well. I am upset that the law is turning a blind out to the very people who are being targeted and victimised. There are two alternatives - first is to succumb to bullying and arrogance of my wife and in-laws and live a life in fear and full of compromises or quit and end up with a huge bill of payout of alimony and maintenance claims, lawyers fees etc. Is there a way we can defend ourselves? I request people who have gone thru this ordeal to post more information so that others can learn from them. Here we go again. I’ve been the latest victim of this so called ‘Crime in Silence’. Gold digging is a common feature in the west but now is rapidly catchig up in Indian metros as well. I’ve slogged my backside out throught out my teens and early youth to build a career. starting at a salary of 700 rupees a month in 1993 and now am having a stable career with a decent salary.
Last year I did the most dreadful mistake ever of marrying someone. Got her to the UK. eight months have elapsed since the marraige consummated and i have gone thru several problems. From Police, to hospital to lawyers and what not.
All that Anniruddha sen had to go thru has happened to me as well. I am upset that the law is turning a blind out to the very people who are being targeted and victimised.
There are two alternatives – first is to succumb to bullying and arrogance of my wife and in-laws and live a life in fear and full of compromises or quit and end up with a huge bill of payout of alimony and maintenance claims, lawyers fees etc.
Is there a way we can defend ourselves?
I request people who have gone thru this ordeal to post more information so that others can learn from them.

]]> By: saheb http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-153198 saheb Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:23:33 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-153198 I really think that is true. It has not been 6months since I am married but I have seen the most bitter side of life. Everyday is a truth. I live in Detroit and make enough to make a comfortable life and support my parents in India. my wife starts a fight and insults me and when that triggers me off and I start yelling (all I yell is to calm down and lets work it out... never did I insult her nor call her names). her reaction is I will kill myself or I am ready to leave you this minute but remember " i will take drag you and claim half your property and alimony". My parents are really old and have to support my younger brother's education. I cannot take a financial blow like this. Hence I suck it all up. My friends and parents and brother think I am living a very happy life. I am not happy and ranting out on this website. I hate my life, the pieces of which remain. So, everybody out there your choices are (goes both for men/women) [1] do not marry [2] do not marry until you have reponsibilities [3] Marry someone on a contract [4] marry only if you are more sure than life the person is the right one I really think that is true. It has not been 6months since I am married but I have seen the most bitter side of life. Everyday is a truth. I live in Detroit and make enough to make a comfortable life and support my parents in India. my wife starts a fight and insults me and when that triggers me off and I start yelling (all I yell is to calm down and lets work it out… never did I insult her nor call her names). her reaction is I will kill myself or I am ready to leave you this minute but remember ” i will take drag you and claim half your property and alimony”. My parents are really old and have to support my younger brother’s education. I cannot take a financial blow like this. Hence I suck it all up. My friends and parents and brother think I am living a very happy life. I am not happy and ranting out on this website.
I hate my life, the pieces of which remain.
So, everybody out there your choices are (goes both for men/women)
[1] do not marry
[2] do not marry until you have reponsibilities
[3] Marry someone on a contract
[4] marry only if you are more sure than life the person is the right one

]]> By: subodh http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-146294 subodh Mon, 02 Feb 2009 12:02:13 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-146294 I really dont agree to people when they say that they could have fought against the allegation...... Because 99% weightage is given to womans allegation..... and 1 % to men.. Now you decide when you will have to make decision according to this what will be your decision......... Men have no where to go................. think again women ask for equality and then misuse the law...... I know women are strong.......... and i know they can really take care of the family , they should be respected........ but situation now is that they dont need respect............ they need money.......... I really dont agree to people when they say that they could have fought against the allegation…… Because 99% weightage is given to womans allegation….. and 1 % to men.. Now you decide when you will have to make decision according to this what will be your decision……… Men have no where to go…………….. think again women ask for equality and then misuse the law…… I know women are strong………. and i know they can really take care of the family , they should be respected…….. but situation now is that they dont need respect………… they need money……….

]]> By: Pranay http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-133357 Pranay Mon, 25 Aug 2008 12:20:14 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-133357 I completely agree with what Juneja has written. Women are completely misusing the rights given to them to save themselves from disrupted marriages with cruel husbands. But today women who leave their husbands for their own wills and fancies are claiming for ransom, other wise threatening the poor husbands of criminal case. This type of women will create a fear in men about the marriages and that can soon result in the condemnation of marriage system. Just lie in Australia and US people will stop marrying and will only look for living relationships. Laws should be changed as and when they are proved to be disastrous and is being misused. I completely agree with what Juneja has written. Women are completely misusing the rights given to them to save themselves from disrupted marriages with cruel husbands.

But today women who leave their husbands for their own wills and fancies are claiming for ransom, other wise threatening the poor husbands of criminal case.

This type of women will create a fear in men about the marriages and that can soon result in the condemnation of marriage system. Just lie in Australia and US people will stop marrying and will only look for living relationships.

Laws should be changed as and when they are proved to be disastrous and is being misused.

]]> By: parvesh http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-41804 parvesh Wed, 30 May 2007 09:01:04 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-41804 One amendment to section 498A. Our ladies are very genuine. After taking away the property of their husband for free,empower them to murder thier husband if they fail to obey them. They must be exempted from section 302. The husband must be tied to the ropes with their wives torturing them to death. If a woman inflict any damage to the husband may be through blackmailing, she should be given the noble prize. Good. Here is what Mrs. Renuka chowdary wants. One amendment to section 498A. Our ladies are very genuine. After taking away the property of their husband for free,empower them to murder thier husband if they fail to obey them. They must be exempted from section 302. The husband must be tied to the ropes with their wives torturing them to death. If a woman inflict any damage to the husband may be through blackmailing, she should be given the noble prize. Good. Here is what Mrs. Renuka chowdary wants.

]]> By: Kush http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-9533 Kush Tue, 08 Aug 2006 12:38:14 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-9533 Latest Update: Haramzdhi's Group so called Deshi Critics or Deshi Cowered writers/blogers dirty face get exposed due to the Voice of Kush "Why 498A can't be applicable for both Mum and Dad ?". They all get scared and lost thier Night Sleep. As a Result they thretened to Ban the Name of Kush in thier Group otherwise they will Chop off the Balls of DC Editors/Moderators. At the end the Editor surrender in the Hand to Haramzadhi Feminist writers/blogers and Baned the Name Kush. "#15 AamanURLAugust 4, 200606:04 AM "No prizes for guessing who is 'Baned'" Fight between Child Killer vs Child Saver will Continue till the time all those Haramzadhi will not be behind the bar for Killing the Child/Child abuse/forcing a child to live under single parenting system. Save Indain Child form Haramzadhi Feminist group, if you you have some social responsibility , otherwise continue your money earning business through Legal Terrorism in India. We do not want part time Fathers every night basis... Latest Update: Haramzdhi’s Group so called Deshi Critics or Deshi Cowered writers/blogers dirty face get exposed due to the Voice of Kush “Why 498A can’t be applicable for both Mum and Dad ?”.

They all get scared and lost thier Night Sleep.

As a Result they thretened to Ban the Name of Kush in thier Group otherwise they will Chop off the Balls of DC Editors/Moderators. At the end the Editor surrender in the Hand to Haramzadhi Feminist writers/blogers and Baned the Name Kush.

“#15
AamanURLAugust 4, 200606:04 AM “No prizes for guessing who is ‘Baned’”

Fight between Child Killer vs Child Saver will Continue till the time all those Haramzadhi will not be behind the bar for Killing the Child/Child abuse/forcing a child to live under single parenting system.

Save Indain Child form Haramzadhi Feminist group, if you you have some social responsibility , otherwise continue your money earning business through Legal Terrorism in India.

We do not want part time Fathers every night basis…

]]> By: Kush http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-7591 Kush Sat, 08 Jul 2006 13:13:19 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-7591 Soina auntie, here here western women failed and indian women enjoy that. The allomoney is for Indian wife not for husabnd. Section 125 and 498a is not applicable for Indian wife, that is the whole sale free lincence indian women have. Learn some thing from them, how to enjoy the multi life style with out staying with husabnd for a single night, but the whole life you ensure your same life style of husabnd. That is great India.... Here what is wife's is her .. What is her husabnd she have right 50% irrespective the marriage break with in two hours or 200 years... in addition to that 50% from parental property presently made. Soina auntie, here here western women failed and indian women enjoy that.

The allomoney is for Indian wife not for husabnd.

Section 125 and 498a is not applicable for Indian wife, that is the whole sale free lincence indian women have.

Learn some thing from them, how to enjoy the multi life style with out staying with husabnd for a single night, but the whole life you ensure your same life style of husabnd.

That is great India….

Here what is wife’s is her ..
What is her husabnd she have right 50% irrespective the marriage break with in two hours or 200 years…

in addition to that

50% from parental property presently made.

]]> By: sonia http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-1329 sonia Fri, 20 Jan 2006 23:36:06 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-1329 gameboys up above - unfortunately one of the fundamental ideas behind marriage is once you get married its not your money or the other persons money but the property of both. so when you get divorced the splittling of property. i find this quite a funny idea myself but that's the legal aspect of marriage. a good reason why lots of people dont get married nowadays. and ive no idea about what its like india but the splitting estate thing works both ways i.e if you're a rich woman and you divorce your husband, he's entitled to half. i suppose we shouldn't from the start pretend and go for the 'what's mine is yours' crap. gameboys up above – unfortunately one of the fundamental ideas behind marriage is once you get married its not your money or the other persons money but the property of both. so when you get divorced the splittling of property. i find this quite a funny idea myself but that’s the legal aspect of marriage. a good reason why lots of people dont get married nowadays. and ive no idea about what its like india but the splitting estate thing works both ways i.e if you’re a rich woman and you divorce your husband, he’s entitled to half.

i suppose we shouldn’t from the start pretend and go for the ‘what’s mine is yours’ crap.

]]> By: Jinesh Zaveri http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2005/09/08/alimony-are-women-mis-using-the-law/comment-page-1/#comment-1247 Jinesh Zaveri Mon, 16 Jan 2006 18:29:43 +0000 http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/?p=118#comment-1247 Yes Women are misusing the alimony law to the max. If they do not use then there is a family / peer pressure that states "When law recognises you as abla then why don't you make the most out of it? So Enjoy" so that is the psyche prevailing. for more eye openers visit http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com Yes Women are misusing the alimony law to the max.

If they do not use then there is a family / peer pressure that states “When law recognises you as abla then why don’t you make the most out of it? So Enjoy” so that is the psyche prevailing.

for more eye openers visit http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com

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